What is a Happy Ending Massage and Why You Need One

A happy ending massage occurs when a massage concludes with sexual contact and orgasm, typically through a hand job. While happy endings can be offered to both male and female clients, males are the predominant customers of erotic massage parlours in London.

Most people understand and respect the boundaries of therapeutic massage, but it can be a suggestive situation. You're usually naked beneath the sheets and don't know the person touching you, especially if you're on vacation. Some people bring their sexual desires and erotic expectations to a spa treatment, even when they know they shouldn't.

It's crucial to respect professional massage therapists wherever you are and not provoke a situation where you're receiving a professional massage and expecting sex or a happy ending, regardless of the therapist's attractiveness or politeness.

Is It Normal To Get a Sexual Arousal During a Massage?

Therapists are taught in school that an erection can be a sign of relaxation. If someone gets an erection, therapists generally ignore it or place a thick towel over it and continue massaging, as long as the person remains quiet and doesn't start masturbating or ask for extras.

A sexual vibe can be introduced into a regular massage by the client or the therapist, and it's often subtle enough that the other person doesn't stop the massage. Some clients might groan suggestively, grind on the table, watch the therapist while they’re massaging, ask for happy endings, lay on the table naked face up when the therapist comes into the room (even though they've been told to get between the sheets), and act like they didn’t know any better. Depending on the obvious behaviour, the therapist might either give a warning before stopping the massage or end it immediately. Male clients are generally the most common offenders.

Sometimes, the inappropriate behaviour starts with the massage therapist. A flirty (and popular) massage therapist might end his massages with a kiss on the forehead. A therapist might massage a woman's thighs with the flat of his hands, coming uncomfortably close to her private parts.

Causes of this kind of inappropriate sexual behaviour in a spa include drinking, which reduces inhibitions. Bad behaviour might be encouraged in places like Las Vegas, where being naughty is part of the brand image. Some people might be ignorant, thinking a spa is like the old-fashioned massage parlour, or they might not care if they offend or upset the therapist. They might even enjoy it.

John Travolta was accused of the grossest kind of sexual behaviour with a male massage therapist during an in-room massage at a luxury hotel in Atlanta. Travolta allegedly had an erection, tried to force the therapist to touch him, and when the therapist refused, started masturbating. The shaken therapist stopped the massage, documented the incident with emails to management, and later filed a lawsuit. Travolta denied any wrongdoing.

As for the allegations, this is about as bad as it gets. Celebrities catch the headlines but are not the only ones who act out. In-room massage is especially risky because massage therapists are more isolated, and clients are sometimes bolder in their rooms. They may think they’re entitled to sexual services, even if the therapist behaves professionally.

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How to Spot a Happy Ending Massage Parlour?

Usually, there are tip-offs that a "happy ending" is on the spa menu. Many places in London offer this kind of service, but the business is just between the masseuse and their clients. Typically, these massage parlours have an unwelcoming appearance with a neon sign that says "open." At these establishments, the masseuses might wear high heels, give you a back massage, and then a hand job when you flip over, but only if you’re willing to give a tip.

Some advertise on websites to keep a low profile, using terms like all-body massage, oriental touch, tantric massage, thigh massage, and body-to-body massage. Asian massage parlours in the UK have a long history, and many offer happy endings.

Legality of Happy Ending Massages

Not everywhere is a happy ending massage legal. In America, a happy ending is illegal and not done at legitimate spas. If you ask for a happy ending at a nice spa or send signals by groaning and grinding suggestively, you're likely to encounter a mortified massage therapist who will warn you that she will end the massage if you don't stop. No one wants their massage to end abruptly.

It's never appropriate to ask for a happy ending at legitimate spas worldwide or during an in-room massage at a hotel. Doing that can open you up to embarrassment and a quick end to the session. It’s a different story here in the UK, where you can find many girls who offer happy-ending massages in London. You do not break the law if the girl is advertising herself on this website, as long as they are not forced to do happy-ending massages and is working independently.

Boundaries in Massage Therapy

Sex sometimes becomes part of the spa treatment, even in a legitimate spa. It might happen through mutual agreement, which is achieved through non-verbal communication. The therapist massages the client's inner thighs, and she opens them a little wider. Even if it's consensual, it breaches a massage therapist's professional ethics, and it's not legal.

It's fairly easy to get a massage therapist to come to your home by checking out alternative newspaper ads, online gay massage directories, and online ads for women who give erotic massages. Check out Tantric Massage for independently working male and female tantric massage therapists in London.

Happy Endings for Women

Women interested in happy endings from male therapists should also be careful when they call for mobile massage therapists and behave in a way that would indicate their need for a happy ending massage. Most likely, you'll face a very embarrassed massage therapist. Women who want to have special treatment and be relaxed can only find a massage for women and may ask for extras. Both male and female massage therapists offer happy-ending massages for women so that you can feel comfortable with a person of your preference.

The Blurry Line Between Legitimate and Erotic Spas

In recent years, the line between a legitimate spa and a happy ending spa has gotten a little blurrier. A friend goes with her husband for a weekly massage at an inexpensive Chinese spa in Bayswater. It's no-frills, but the quality of the massage is good, and the price is right. One day, her husband said he was offered a happy ending to his massage, which he turned down.

Sex between therapist and guest is a no-no at the spa. The client should not throw off the sheet and ask for "extras." The massage therapist is not supposed to massage suggestively, compliment a woman on her body, or ask to meet later.

Author

Julia Rossa - an author, blogger, medical journalist, and certified sex therapist. Educated at London Metropolitan University, she brings a wealth of knowledge and a unique perspective to her writing. Julia is dedicated to providing evidence-based insights on sexual health and wellness, aiming to destigmatise conversations around sex. With years of experience as a therapist, she is also a massage and fitness enthusiast. Through her engaging blog and widely-read articles, Julia empowers readers to enhance their intimate relationships and embrace their sexuality with confidence.