What is a Tantric Yoni Massage for Women?

Yoni massage means "sacred space or temple". Women use this type of massage to address sexual health issues like anorgasmia or sexual pain. In Tantra, the vagina is revered as a sacred part of the female body that must be treated with care and respect. Yoni massage is a sensual form of bodywork that builds trust between the giver and receiver, connecting the receiver to their inner sensual nature and resulting in complete well-being, satisfaction, and contentment.

Although Yoni massage can be highly stimulating, its purpose is not to bring the woman to orgasm. Instead, it aims to relax the receiver and evoke emotions so that she can freely express her natural, powerful, orgasmic nature. The experiences and feelings that a woman may have during Yoni massage can vary greatly, from anger, lust, and sadness to indifference.

Everything is possible, and everything is allowed. Yoni massage is not about achieving a specific feeling or meeting particular expectations. The intention is to witness the receiver and honour and respect her feminine nature as a divine Goddess.

Before Receiving Yoni Massage

Before the massage, it is beneficial to gaze into each other's eyes while embracing and engaging in deep, relaxed, synchronised breathing. This helps the giver and receiver connect deeply, fostering openness and establishing a foundation for the Yoni massage. Throughout the entire process, both the giver and receiver should maintain deep, slow, and relaxed breathing.

When both are ready to begin the massage, the woman lies on her back with one pillow under her head and another under her hips to elevate her pelvis. She bends her knees and opens her legs to expose her Yoni. The giver sits comfortably between her legs with their legs crossed, possibly using a pillow or cushion for added comfort.

Yoni massages are now provided by independent men and women across the UK, including England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland.

What Does a Yoni Massage Involve?

Begin by massaging other parts of her body to encourage relaxation, deeper breathing, and muscle relaxation. Gently but firmly, massage her legs, thighs, stomach, breasts, and arms before moving towards the Yoni. Next, massage the pubic bone area and move to the inner thigh. Using the right hand (as per Tantra's polarity principles), apply a high-quality oil or lubricant to the mound of the Yoni, pouring just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni.

Gently rub the oil on the outer lips of the Yoni. Using the thumb and index finger, gently squeeze each lip, sliding the fingers up and down the entire length of each lip. Carefully repeat this process with each inner lip, varying the pressure and speed of touch based on what feels right.

Next, gently stroke the clitoris in a circular motion, clockwise and counter-clockwise. Then, squeeze the clitoris between the thumb and index finger. Slowly and with great care, insert your middle finger into her Yoni. Gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni with your finger, varying the speed and depth of your finger's movement, exploring up, down, and around. With your palm pointing upward and your finger inside your partner's Yoni, bend your finger to make contact with her G-spot, often referred to as the "sacred spot" in Tantra.

Continue the massage, varying speeds, pressures, and motions. Maintain eye contact and keep breathing deeply. Powerful emotions may arise, such as crying or laughter, which signify released blocked energy, which is deeply healing. Continue to breathe deeply throughout the massage. If orgasm occurs, keep breathing, release any held energy or emotions, and scream if needed. This is a safe space for healing.

Remember, consistent breathing helps move energy throughout the body, enhancing the healing aspect of the Yoni massage. Multiple orgasms may occur, increasing in intensity, known in Tantra as "riding the wave." Many women can learn to be multi-orgasmic with patient, caring partners.

Continue massaging until she signals to stop. Slowly, gently, and mindfully remove your hands. The Yoni massage creates a space for deep relaxation, heightened arousal, and intense pleasure from her Yoni. Allow her to lie peacefully, possibly covering her with a blanket to create a warm cocoon around her body, letting her enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. This is a profound moment of peace, experiencing the joy of witnessing this special time.

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Julia Rossa - an author, blogger, medical journalist, and certified sex therapist. Educated at London Metropolitan University, she brings a wealth of knowledge and a unique perspective to her writing. Julia is dedicated to providing evidence-based insights on sexual health and wellness, aiming to destigmatise conversations around sex. With years of experience as a therapist, she is also a massage and fitness enthusiast. Through her engaging blog and widely-read articles, Julia empowers readers to enhance their intimate relationships and embrace their sexuality with confidence.