Essential Preparation for Your First Booking - Tips for Escorts & Masseuses

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If you are starting as an erotic masseuse or an escort in the UK, preparing yourself before your first booking is crucial. Greeting your clients creates a lasting impression, so being well-prepared is essential.

Remember, preparing for a massage differs from an escort booking. Here are some simple steps to create the right atmosphere:

• Ensure the environment is clean and uncluttered for a relaxed atmosphere.
• Adjust the room temperature to a comfortable level.
• Light-scented candles to set a soothing mood.
• Have baby wipes, oils, and lotions that are safe for internal use ready.

How to Prepare Yourself and Greet Your Clients

Once everything is prepped, let your client ring the doorbell.

It’s best to have trimmed nails for massages unless your client specifically requests otherwise.

Avoid direct application to the body when applying oil or lotion. Place a good amount in your warm hands, rub them together, and then begin the massage. Remember, your hands aren’t your only tools.

For a Nuru massage, use oil or Nuru gel and slide your body against theirs (body to body). Utilise your oiled arms, breasts, and stomach effectively. This signals readiness to escalate physically. Kissing, licking, and gentle breath on the skin often elicit an erotic response.

During an erotic massage, ensure you stimulate all the key zones. Online tutorials offer advice on touching the right places and performing the best erotic massage.

Creative tip: Consider using a blindfold on your client to heighten their sensory experience. Limiting one sense enhances the sensuality of the massage.

Below is an image showcasing a creative, soapy massage service in London offered by one of our sensual masseuses.

Invest in New Photos and Create Your Perfect Ad

Is your New Year’s resolution to earn more money? If so, instead of spending loads on advertising, consider promoting your tantric, erotic massage, and escort services on Sensual Massages. Invest in and upload a few new photos – more photos mean more calls.

You can even team up with a friend, pop a bottle of bubbly, and dress in your favourite lingerie. Take some sexy, cheeky photos with your iPhone (you’d be amazed at the quality), and make final edits right on your device. It’s that simple – you don’t need to be an expert.

Invest in New and Sexy Underwear

That’s your uniform and what turns those men on. You’re like a gift to them, and they’ll unwrap your brand-new set of AP lingerie. Maybe you’ve got the newest collection, but they’ve never seen it. Those guys will come again.

Low on cash after these festive days? Yeah, me too. Could you stick with the good old selfie? Interestingly, punters love that kind of picture. It’s the real deal. Unlike professional photos that are often overly edited, selfies are authentic. It’s you. But still… quality is important too. Keep that in mind.

So make a head start this year (yeah, I know what you’re thinking), and be smart with your money. Earn and spend it wisely. This is easy and time well spent. The client might even want to give you a massage in return. Doesn’t that sound incredibly tempting… getting paid to be pleasured? Love your job.

Essential Points for Pre-Bookings

Before confirming any booking, there are several essential points to consider to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience for both you and your client:

Client Screening and Safety Checks

Always perform thorough client screenings. This includes checking references if available, verifying identities, and having a brief conversation to gauge their expectations and intentions. Many professionals use screening services or require new clients to provide personal information such as a work email or social media profile to confirm their identity. Safety should always be your top priority.

Travel to a Client

When travelling to a client’s location, ensure you are well-prepared. Know the address and have a reliable mode of transport. If you're using public transport, ensure you know the route and schedule. Always inform a trusted friend or colleague about your whereabouts and expected return time. Carry a mobile phone and keep it charged for emergencies.

At-Home Massage Preparations

If you host the massage at home, create a welcoming and professional environment. Cleanliness is crucial, so please ensure your space is clean and inviting. Set the mood with soft lighting, soothing music, and a comfortable temperature. All your supplies, including oils, towels, and wipes, are readily accessible. Personal touches like fresh flowers or a small refreshment can enhance the client's experience.

Payment Arrangements

Discuss and confirm payment details before the appointment. Be transparent about your rates and any additional charges for extra services. Decide on the payment method (cash, bank transfer, etc.) and ensure the client knows this beforehand. Collecting payment at the beginning of the session can avoid any awkwardness later. Always have a discreet way to handle the transaction, maintaining professionalism and confidentiality.

Why New Escorts Should Consider Starting as Masseuses

Starting as a masseuse before venturing into escorting can be beneficial for several reasons:

1. Gaining Experience

Working as a masseuse allows you to gain valuable experience in client interaction, understanding boundaries, and providing intimate services. This experience can build your confidence and prepare you for the more complex dynamics of escorting.

2. Building a Client Base

As a masseuse, you can start building a loyal client base. Satisfied clients often refer others, helping you establish a steady stream of income and a solid reputation. When you transition to escorting, you already have a trusted client network.

3. Understanding Your Comfort Zone

Erotic massage offers a more controlled environment to explore your comfort levels and preferences. You can gradually become more comfortable with physical intimacy and understand your boundaries, making the transition to escorting smoother and less overwhelming.

4. Financial Stability

Starting as a masseuse can provide financial stability as you navigate the initial stages of your career. The income from massage services can support you while you build your escorting business, reducing financial pressure and allowing you to make more thoughtful decisions.

5. Skill Development

Massage requires specific skills and techniques that can be highly valued in the escorting industry. Developing these skills can set you apart and provide a unique selling point. Clients often seek companions who can offer more than just traditional escort services, and being proficient in massage can enhance your appeal.

6. Legal and Safety Considerations

Erotic massage operates within a clearer legal framework compared to escorting, which can sometimes be in a legal grey area. Starting as a masseuse allows you to understand the regulatory environment and develop practices prioritising your safety and legal protection.

By following these tips and considering a gradual entry into the adult services industry, you can build a successful and sustainable career. Please prioritise your safety, invest in your professional development, and create an environment to help you and your client's experience. You can thrive in this unique and rewarding field with preparation, knowledge, and a strategic approach.

No more hesitation. Go straight to Get Listed and create your massage profile ad today because there is a huge demand for erotic massage near London. Make it different from your existing escort ad so your client knows the experience will differ.

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Author

Julia Rossa - an author, blogger, medical journalist, and certified sex therapist. Educated at London Metropolitan University, she brings a wealth of knowledge and a unique perspective to her writing. Julia is dedicated to providing evidence-based insights on sexual health and wellness, aiming to destigmatise conversations around sex. With years of experience as a therapist, she is also a massage and fitness enthusiast. Through her engaging blog and widely-read articles, Julia empowers readers to enhance their intimate relationships and embrace their sexuality with confidence.

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